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hi i am 32 and currently dating a girl who happens to be married.

she has cheated on her hushband before and they have been married for 14 years he does know of one or two of the affiars she has had and he has cheated on her as well and also even brought another girl into their marriage for extra curricular activities she tells me she is unhappy and is currently looking to leave him even though she has been unhappy for several years and he doesnt seem to want to spend much time with her (its like they live seperate lives)she often cries to me cause she cant handle the life that she has and she can see a future with me cause i give her so much more .yet she cant seem to find the strength to leave him as she seems scared to of how to deal with being alone

yet from the moment we talked i fell in love with her a we have had some issues me and her and she has even cheated on me but she is now currently working on that is she has always been honest with me in regards to the one night stands and i have always forgiven her she lives in america and i live in england and we see each other a couple of times a year and i am looking to moving over there to see what a new life would be like .my question is would i be stupid in getting involved with this women even though i have fallen for her big time and totally adore her considering the mistrust she has had in her marriage and even though she knows how i feel she has hurt me in the past .and i have forgiven her cause we are not living in the same place or sharing a life together on a regular basis apart from emails and phone calls ands seeing each other a coupe of times together .am i making a mistake by mov

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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Hi,

There is no future in your relationship with her. She cheated her husband several times, cheated on you already, what makes you think she won't do it over and over again after you married her?

Do you know why you got involved with her inspite of all this mess? You believe that you are saving a damsel in distress. That way you will feel better about yourself. My friend, don't believe that you will feel good by being with her, she will just make your life very miserable.

So just e-mail her and tell her that you have changed your mind and ask her not to contact you ever again, change your e-mail address, change you phone numbers. This is going to be tough at first but eventually you will forget her.

Find a nice lady who does not play games , someone who will deserve your goodness.

And lastly, don't ever give anyone a chance of putting a big sign on your forehead saying '' I AM STUPID AND DESPERATE ".

Take care and BE SMARTER NEXT TIME.

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