I think you need to give it a little time out of respect to him and his daughter.  Don't get me wrong I don't condone what he or his daughter is doing, but you don't want to seem pushy at this point.  If you don't hear from him in a couple of weeks or so, call just to say hi and wish him well.  If he truly intended to marry you he should have put you higher up on his priority list.  You wouldn't want to marry a man who is going to be controlled or manipulated by his daughter, you deserve more.