I have feelings for a guy that I work with at one of my part-time jobs as a party promoter. I only see him once every few weeks but really enjoy hanging out with him when I get the chance and would really like to date him. He is such a cool guy that I cannot tell if he is being flirtatious with me or if he is just really nice. How can I let him know that I am interested and have feelings for him without making the work environment awkward? I know that work affairs are frowned upon, but I only see him every few weeks so is it really that bad?
First of all, if you only see him every once in a while, I can't imagine that working with him would really be a bad thing. I think that you should put the working together issue aside, because it doesn't really seem like an issue, to me. I would just flirt back... I'd make it clear that you're interested, and even ask what he's up to after work. I would just be in touch with him through IM and get to know him better. If you guys seem compatible, I'm sure he'll ask you if you want to hang out together. You can ask him also if he wants to get coffee or do something. Good luck.
If there is another guy friend there that you are cool with you may be able to get him to tell the other guy that you like him. Or you might could have someone ask the guy you like what he think about you and if he is interested. life is too short you have you just try it and see where it goes. don't be scared of no. if he doesn't want to date then his lost. just be friends
It's fine. Just ask him in work to eat the lunch time/room meal with you and make the flirting most of it in the slotted time. It's a sure hit.
Yes, I think it's ok to date him as long as you are two consenting adults. I think the best way to go about it is to start off with coffee dates or maybe lunch dates. get to know each other first before you embark on something more serious.
Having a romantic affair in the office has advantages and disadvantages. Advantages:
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before date you can say him spend some time with you evn you get a lunch or a dinner with togather.in this time you can inderstood him. have a nice time
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