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The curse of looking far too young

The curse of looking too young. -Just to vent!! Believe it or not, I'm in my forties and still hating looking too young. So many times I have struggled with looking far too young for my age. I have a very small face structure with thick skin. My next move in life is to get the chin, cheek, and forehead implants to give structure of a woman's face, just the type of woman that I am. I've had this issues my entire life. I was still getting carded at restaurants while in my thirties (embarrassing). My youthful looks has definitely had an issue with my life. Seems that no one has ever taken me seriously. Trying to get a job beyond entry level was non-existent for me. I've also had a lot of man problems. I've been wanting to get married all my life, but I never have been asked until this summer (which turned ugly because of my young looks) How ironic. This summer I was asked to become a wife and have children. When the guy asked me what year I was born, I was honest. I was born in the 1960's. He dropped the engagement immediately because he thought I was too old biologically. He said that he thought I was much younger. Two women that I work along side with, asked me how old I was because my mature demeanor didn't match the age I looked. I lied and said that I was in my thirties. The response was, "You don't look that old". Pssst- I'm in my forties!!!


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Don't let the sun go down on me.

Victims of circumstance owe it to fate. Victims of choice owe it to themselves.

The last time I got carded for a beer purchase was when I was over 40 years old. I thot that it was neat. In a way. That was about 20 years ago; now I am gray and wrinkly.

You need to learn to love  yourself as you are. Plastic surgery will not help. My mother had her last face lift some time ago, and suffered a stroke in her post-operative period, She was very keen on keeping up her appearance because she was working as an interior decorator.

Get a grip on the fact that this is a gift from GOD. It will go away. Trust me on this one.

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Thank you all for your responses.  I know what experiences I've had.  I do love myself as a human being.  The confidence issue, however, has been beat up throughout the years because of the statements.  And I can see it everytime I see my reflection in mirrors and glass.


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