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Why do I keep craving (and having) sex with my male dog (I'm male too)?

Why do I keep craving (and having) sex with my male dog (I'm male too)?

I keep on craving and having sexual activity with my male dog; not going into any details, obviously. I don't feel so sure whether this is ok or not. I mean I'm willing to continue, or is it my mind saying that. My dog often consent, and even initiates in sexual activities with me, himself. I hate being called a deviant; and don't feel so. It's being called that, that wants me to change; so here I plea for your help. The social exclusion is giving me anxiety and depression; already have I been diagnosed with possible DID, if that's possible. I also hear auditory hallucinations of multiple personalities in my head; things that have been proven real, almost like I'm psychic (I think psychotic is the true term, really); not that I am, that's something different, I think, but I feel I should mention my vivid DID. I've even talked to religious people and they said I should die and go to hell. I haven't talked to anyone about my condition face to face; only anonymously online.

I don't even want to stop; it has become apart of me; please help.

I hate and despise others like me; I don't know if this a crave of difference, or protection, etc. Is it?

Is there are cure; other than medicinal torture? I don't want to go to a GP, they'll just condemn me to a jail cell or something for commiting the crime (I live in UK).

I'm 18, and have been having sex since the age of 14, but have craved having sex with animals since the age of about 7, is that weird? And I craved and thought about it, especially in my dreams, but no animals were accessible then, and I believe I had some sort of plushophilia, but never interested in stuff like furries (perhaps due to the fact I grew out of cartoons and stuff fast, and cartoons are very common in that culture). (I know these terms as I regular adopt the use of online websites on zoophilia).

But I really love my dog, its so powerful, and I'd never hurt him, never ever; and the lust is strong too. it's a truly fantastic feeling; I think non-zoosexuality is boring, never tried it, but I don't like women sexually, and I think gays are so cheesy, they make me bork.

It's just like an orientations, not a fetish, not fuss, or a paraphilia. It's apart of me; but I'm not asking to stop my dedicated love and lust exactly; I'm asking for ways I could take on to feel equal, but never lie about my sexuality ever again!

Ok, now I'm waffling too much, I hope you can help me!

Thank you, in advance.


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I can't help you. I suggest you see a mental health specialist. Your behavior is not normal, and it is obvious from your post that you are not at peace with yourself.

Please get help.

 
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It is illegal where I am; all they'll do is put me in a jail cell for commiting the act.

Someone I knew only admitted to the act, and got put into jail for a year.

That's the problem.

Posted 2009-06-28T21:31:25Z
 
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That is a terrble law. You need help, not jail. Is there any way you could get help secretly?

I don't know what else to say. Hopefully there may be some posters out there who can suggest some ideas.

I wish you well.

 
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I hope; unlike in most places, it is not a misdemeanour; abuse or no abuse involved, it is still classed as a bad act. Wrong, I know; but if it truly is mentalistic; I guess the laws shouldn't refer you to jail; but rather psychiatry, according to DSM (even if it is residual). I don't believe it is psychological exactly; but I feel being this way is ruining my life; my inaccessibility of help, by the law, and privacy, - has extremely apprehended my lifestyle; I hope you understand.

I appreciate your concerns.

And thank you to future answerers, in advance!

Posted 2009-06-29T20:58:15Z
 
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You need to see a therapist on a regular basis and also a psychiatrist to diagnose you and get you on the proper medication. You won't get in any legal trouble b/c it is against the law for a counselor to break confidentiality. Please get the help you need. You know this behaviour is not normal and not healthy.

Posted 2009-06-30T00:00:24Z
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You, young man, are a classic case of a very sick mind that needs immediate help from a psychiatrist and a reprimand/arrest by the ASPCA animal control officers. Your dog is an animal and, like a child, it does not have the capacity to "consent," because it, unlike human adults, it lacks the capacity to think critically and to say yes or no. What you are doing is animal abuse even if the animal seems to "enjoy" it. You should not own animals at all or be near them. You are a danger to them. I feel sorry for your state of mind but even more sorry for the poor animal, which cannot escape your clutches. Please get help, ASAP!

Posted 2009-06-30T19:16:14Z
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Without turning this into a motherlode of a debate, I say...

Actually, animals can 'legally' (according, parallel of human year conversions to dog years, and time-of-post-puberty in humans and dogs research comparison) consent once at the age of post-adolescence (post-puberty) and over (2 years); the age of maturity, consent, and majority in humans is 18; dogs mature much faster, therefore the age is 2, not 18. My dog is within age, and hence has the capacity to consent. I am NOT a pedophile, or bestiosexualist. I am a zoosexual.

My dog is fully adult (2 years is majority, consent, and maturity, and he is above that); is never harmed; initiates (I rarely do) in sex; and has a mind, even if it has lower intellectual intelligence, unlike humans, even though there is no proof either sides (therefore any argument is lawfully invalidated), because psychology is invisible and indecipherable to scientific study and research, - empirically and theoretically.

I am in great favour for AR, not ARA (because they are OTT); I want animals to have rights, but are you sure you aren't being speciesist and compromising the sex lives of animals; if so, you do not respect animal liberation; your views are twisted by religion and false morals, IMHO.

My I ask:

Does an animal consent to being locked in a cage?

Does an animal consent to being eaten?

Does an animal consent to being tested on?

Does an animal consent to being bathed?

Does an animal consent to consuming foodstuffs and liquids; not limited to, but including, - dog food and water; and medical products.

Does an animal consent to being 'fixed'?

Does an animal consent to being 'destroyed'?

Baring in mind, we are excluding humans here, in a suprem-speciesist way; violating the true freedoms of animals; dominating your intellectual intelligence and opinions above others, human and non-human matter, in this case. May I ask, how do you dare tread in places where only the warmongers of debates dare tread? What I do to hurt you? Why is your opinion superior to mine? Have you done any research, or do you just listen to biased sources?

Where are your sources?

I have sources, so please enlighten me with yours; I asked first.

I never hold my dog down, nor do I ever name him a 'dog', he is a person; not some 'thing' with a lower importance (and including, but not limited to, intellectual intelligence) to a human, like you.

You say, it can't 'affirm' or 'negate' in speech, but do you understand whether someone with another language, is saying 'yes' or 'no'; do you understand whether someone who can't speak (a mute), is saying 'yes' or 'no', no, right; it is the same, humans ARE animals; dogs are mammals, and in the layers of DNA between different humans, you define a theoretical 'classification', to say that 'dogs' are impartially, genetically 'different' to 'humans' in their way of thinking. Who said that; their bodies may be different, but we are mammals; inter-specific contact spreads primate diseases between primates; and having sex with non-mammals is of unknown knowledge for welfare (due to their differences), but still, even they are animals; do they think different? Are you a non-human animal?

Like a mute, or someone speaking a foreign language; and before the times of organised vocal language in humans; how did humans communicate? With body language; and guess what? Mammals and other animals (that mimic mammal beharviour) are quite capable of communicating via the use of body language, as with humans. This has been proven; the consent issue has been interned, it is incorrect and wrong, until proven not; but with extensive studies, already, the consent issue has been clarified, and the answer is 'animals above the age of maturity can consent, and have reached the state of majority'.

So you think non-human animals can't make decisions, another speciesist remark; they can, especially dogs, in fact, even bacteria can; science says, - we all follow the clockwork of particles, so all decisions that we 'apparently' make, are not made by 'us', but instead, all the choices and opinions we make, are based on the most logical path of the universe's flow, resulting in negativity and positivity from the lower substitutes, a flaw in the human mind's design; in fact, a flaw in all things. But from a philosophical and empirical point of view, you are misunderstanding, that 'animals', as in 'non-human animals' can't choose, because of their low intellectual intelligence; but truly, if the 'animal' enjoys the act, and does not suffer, what's wrong? You could also turn the debate on its head, by saying 'Who's to say humans can consent, and make the right choices, like they think you do?' You think other animals are any different, do you? On its head again, we can say: - Well, how come humans live in cages, we call 'houses', and work in offices all day, we call 'survival/hunting for money for food', is truly civilised behaviour, surely that's the wild angle of our ways?

If your opinion matters, and if mine does; two negations to each other, crosses the argument out; I can say 'Both opinions are as bad as each other.' And if that is so, no argument is correct, or incorrect; everything is equal, just the minds of people, choose to ignore that. Are you sure humans can consent, to their own deeds? If so, tell me what's the difference; when it is proven in all other areas, animals truly do consent.

Helpful answers only, please.

Posted 2009-06-30T21:29:07Z
 
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From your very lengthy writing/answers, it seems you have too much time on your hands that could be used for more productive and meaningful activities in life, to help the world, rather than wasting your youth and life on bestiality obsessions.

Posted 2009-07-01T17:20:34Z
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