I had a boyfriend that thought I should wear tank tops and mini skirts. LOL I told him to take a hike! ME - in a mini skirt and tank top.. (ROFLMAO - I'm full figured)... ROFL - the one he picked out at a store as we walked by had all kinds of sequins on it and - i was like OH NO! Another guy I dated lvoed me in long skirts and nice blouses because it was femenine to him. I had a friend whos husband went crazy when she was in her undies and a t-shirt - and wearing her glasses no less! So it depends!