How can we get closer again?

ok! Ya spying isn't good and especially if he finds out that ur spying on him he is gonna get mad cuss he trusted u. I know cuss i've done that before. so hun juss talk to him and tell him how u feel. Will i don't know if yall have met yet cuss u said yall met on the internet. So if yall have met then talk to him face to face juss yall to but if yall haven't then juss call him when both of yall aren't busy and are alone and let everything out. And whatever you do don't leave anything juss tell him how u feel, OK!! Will i hope everything works out. Keep in touch

Victoria Campos 

Hi,
Every good relation is based on 4 pillars: Trust + Openess + Respect + Communicatins.  If you have a problem you have to discuss it (openly and deeply) with him..... (that will also show him the way).  Choose the setting (you know what he likes), prepare what and how are you going to say, and tell him exactly what you feel and what you want.  Listen carefully to his answer, watch his body-language as well, it will guide you how to react.  If you can't discuss it with him it's a sign that your relation is in deep troubles (no openess, no communication and probably not enough respect and no enough trust as well).   No offence please.
Best regards,

Your relationship is still very young, 4months, should actually be the stage where you still only have time for each other and your new found love. BUT DO NOT ASUME! Asuming is the worst enemy in any relationship.. From the beginning of your relationship you should lay the foundation of comunication. Talk to each other about feelings and things you arent happy about, that way you allow your relationship to grow healthy..if you going to sit and wonder and asume you just going to come up with a whole lot of dark negative thoughts that isnt always the truth. If you feel for whateva reason you cant talk face2face to him bout your worries and fears go online and talk to him. Some people express themselves better that way..mayb he has innocent chat with platonic friends..you wouldnt know unless you ask. Its best you have this conversation soon, then let it drag on and it becomes unbearable and then turns into a huge argument leaving you hurt. Goodluck my dear..hope it turns out ok 4u

During or at least after 4 months of dating you and your bf should have discussed mutual feelings and if not yet then it would be wise to do it ASAP. Nothing wrong with it and it is not nagging but it is important to occasionally discuss where each of you feels about the relationship. I think you should avoid spying on him because that would be taken as an invasion of his privacy since you are not ye engaged. He might be discussing how he feels with a good friend or old confidant. Again, it is cerainly legitimate for each of you to ask where the other feels about the relationship. Perhaps he is expecting or hoping that you will take the initiative. If there is no positive reaction or he refuses to alk then you should look elsewhere, dating time is precious and should be used judiciously. Good luck.

Tell him how much you miss those days. Tell him how much you love to be loved and pampered by him. Make him feel that you care for him and you trust him for everything. Kiss Day is coming soon. Celebrate the day and make him feel like a hero.