We pass on our values to our kids through Communication which is the most important component of any relationship. If we communicate something positive, it brings back something positive to us, and vice versa.
 
Kids can sense the underlying emotion and message of any communication, and react with the same emotions.

If your child doesn’t listen to you, praise him for anything you find good about him and he’ll listen attentively.Few words of appreciation and praise get results where criticism and ridicule fail. If you praise him for the good things he does, he is more likely to do good things again.

But remember! everything has a limit. Over praising a child might do more harm than good.

Here is given a useful link which I think will help you:

http://www.child-discipline-with-love.com/