Stop crying about child support, my dad raised three boys on his own my mom died there was no extra money coming in, we made it, you need to pull your family resources together, teach your kids to be self sufficiant,stop living outside your means, make it work. My dad taught me to cut coupons, taught me to balance my check book, and most importantly he taught me the difference between "Wants and "Needs", To me Yes it takes two to make a child, but Adam didn't ask Eve to eat that fruit, You want to jump ship from a relationship man up and deal with the results of your decision, My dad always taught us , If you give, loan or even supply something to someone, do it with the intent that you will never get anything back, that way you never get let down and if you do get something back, Great.