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Is he cheating?

My boyfriend is always accusing me of cheating on him and not being at home when i say that i am going there.  he is always starting fights and telling me that i dont really love him that i am just playing him.  and when he starts these fights he always ends up telling me to go home and then telling me that i am not really at home when i am.  then if i try and call him he ignores my calls and texts but will say that he "didn't hear his phone or that the text didn't come thru until hours later". and for days he will still ignore my calls and only call me about the time i get out of work just to find out where i am at but anyother time he wants to have nothing to do with me until he wants something or wants to know something.  he always knows where i am at all the time..and the majority of the time i am at his house if i am not at work unless he tells me to go home.  but when he goes places its i have things to take care of or i have errands i have to run....Could all this be signs that he is cheating?


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Hi,

    Those are not signs of cheating, but signs that he does not love you, does not care and does not respect you.  You are wasting your time on a WACKO MAN, better get out of that relationship otherwise you'll go insane.  He will drive anyone bonkers.  Please move on with your life without him.  You deserve a man who will love you, respect and care for you and not play games on you.

   You take good care of yourself and please get out of that depressing relationship.


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Plain and simply there is a real likihood. The other thing I noted is that you say you spend all of your time at his place. Why is that?? Why can't you go home to where you live?? Go home. Why must you wait until he tells you to go home?? If he doesn't have someone else then he probably gets tired of you. Once he uses you all up for his needs, what else are you good for?? Never mind what he says when he wants to use you...thats crap. Get busy with your own needs. What did you do before you met him?? If you say you wrap your life around him, you have real issues that he has nothing to do with.

There's an old saying"Why buy the cow if you can get the milk free."


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some of the signs like you said he always gets irritated with you.. is a sign of infidelity.. but then we simply cant jump to the conclusion that he is cheating on you.. to find out whether he is cheating on you or not.. check this out and see if you could find any of these signs in him..

http://home-family.top54u.com/post/Signs-Of-A-Cheating-Husband.aspx 

If yes then you know the answer.. if no then maybe he simply wants to use you or it could be that he is overtly possessive about you..


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 He may be trying to break up with you , or get you to break up with him and yes he may be cheating , and is trying to turn it on you .   Could be starting these fights with you so he can leave and hook up with someone else .  Regardless to all this , he is inmature and selfish,  does not care for you , does not respect you .  Find yourself a guy that knows how to be honest with you , respect you and treat you like a Lady .


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Personally, when asked to leave I would have him think I'm leaving but stay and see if I can find anything. But sounds like you really know the truth and your in denial. You stated that for days he dont answer your calls but majority of the time you are at his house. Try his game stop telling your whereabouts and make him wonder sometimes where you at? You deserve a better man than him n e way from the sounds of it. Once you get a life and start to do you either you will find somebody else that deserves you or he will get some act right... Start being into yourself more!


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