Hi,
Those are not signs of cheating, but signs that he does not love you, does not care and does not respect you. You are wasting your time on a WACKO MAN, better get out of that relationship otherwise you'll go insane. He will drive anyone bonkers. Please move on with your life without him. You deserve a man who will love you, respect and care for you and not play games on you.
You take good care of yourself and please get out of that depressing relationship.