Is he cheating?

Sure, he lie you. talk you as man

I just read a whole article about whether online flirting is cheating or not.  I tend to believe it is not actually cheating and if it helps a man release his tension, then it is better than real cheating but i would not be happy if my husband was doing it.

It sounds like you guys have some major trust issues, have you thought about going for some couple counselling so you can get it all out in the open and try to move on- a marriage can only work if you both trust each other.

Good luck!

he's cheating.  if he's getting defensive and asking you all the questions and wondering if YOU'RE cheating, he's being that way 'cuz HE'S cheating.  the cheater always thinks everyone else is cheating.  sexual test messages from a married man to anyone other than his wife is inappropiate at best.  disrespectful to you at worst.  if he's online flirting is "innocent," ask to talk to this person yourself. 

if he feels guilty, it's wrong.  online flirting with a woman is NOT harmless when the man is married, period. 

conversely, he's a man and he's not dead.  it's okay to look, but never to touch and never to communicate with. 

YOU are the ONLY WOMAN he should be flirting with and sending sexual texts to and exchanging racy pictures with.

I think there are several ways to look at this.  He quite possibly is projecting. Meaning whatever he is guilty of, he is blaming you for doing the same thing. See, if you are guilty of his same “crime” then it makes him feel less like the “bad guy”.  People do tend to argue weather “virtual” cheating is the same as physical cheating.  I think that he is not intending to cheat; he just craves the attention and excitement brought on by these “conversations” with strangers or other people. He is satisfying his bad boy side which gives him a thrill but he rationalizes his guilt by telling himself it isn’t really cheating. On the flip-side, he might actually feel guilty and horrified by what he did a year ago and he keeps waiting on the “pay-back”. He might assume that if he upsets you in any way, you will pull an “eye-for-an-eye” and cheat on him.  I think before making the assumption that he is in fact cheating, it would be best to have a sit down with him.  Like one of those wonderful “family-meeting” style gatherings when you lay everything out on the table. Reassure him that if you are still with him after catching him a year ago, that it means you love him and want to be with.  Tell him that you are interested in keeping this relationship a-float and if he has been hiding anything else, now is the time to come clean.  Communication is the best form resolution in a relationship; Open, honest, unbiased communication.

of course he is cheating .look at his phone again.if it is locked  ask him for the password. if he wont give then he is still cheatin.what would he have to hide