I cheated how do i make it up for valentines day

Tell him or her what you did and that you are truly sorry and vow to NEVER cheat again and--mean it!

It is best to move forward and not live in the past. Do not continue to bring up what you did a year ago and keep reminding him of it. You made a mistake, I'm sure you have already appologized, and he forgave you(I'm assuming since he is still with you). Leave it at that. If you want to do something nice for him for Valentine's Day, do it because you love him w/all your heart and want to show him..not because you feel you need to make up for a mistake that you made a year ago.

I think you should let him sleep with your best friend the night before and that will make up for things. Both of you can then enjoy Valenties day turning a new leaf....and your spouse with thankyou for that extra treat. 

Make sure she is cute though.... 

Wow there are some nuts on here...You should be extra sexy, extra nurturing, very nice and maybe make him his favorite meal and after dinner give him a hot oil massage...Then use your imagination for the rest :) hope you two have a wonderful night!

i dont no if there is anything u can do if that was me i wood kicked your ass to the curb but since he didnt that must mean he loves you a shitload so buy him something nice.............

I agree with Janissa.  Assuming he knows about your past fling and he is still with you, means he still loves you and is willing to work it out.  Hopefully you told him about the affair and he didn't find out some other way which shows some trust is still there. Absolutely do not keep dwelling on the past and mentioning it to him.  He's moving ahead three steps and every time you mention it, you kick him back two which will never allow either of you to move on with your relationship. 

Treat is as any special Valentines should be.  Don't try too hard though because it may just backfire on you and push him away. 

Move ahead with your lives if that's what you both want and try and forget about the past and focus on your future.   I also hope that you are sincere when you say it won't happen again and you're truly sorry, because he deserves the truth.

Best of luck to both of you.