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Did I cheat on my girl?


I'm in a serious relationship.  We have a child together and are unmarried, but are serious about getting married.
 
kind of bizarre
 
my girl is going away to take care of her dying grandmother in Houston and I won't see her for sometime.  My son will be staying with my girl's mom or his grandmother.   I will not be having sex, but I'm having nightmares of having an affair.
 
I woke up in a cold sweat this morning.  I wrote this
 
"last night I had I an affair with another woman in a nightmare while Sara was in Houston. I didn't actually, but I found myself wondering how Sara was going to deal with that. I would never actually, but I am very lonely.... I didn't actually have sex in my dream strangely enough, but I found myself perplexed and dealing with a second woman's emotional baggage and missed dreams. I never want to feel like I ruined another person's life again. I don't know if I could ever go with another person. I'm not making this up. I just woke up from the nightmare. It wasn't pleasant and she was definitely in love with me. She was a little bit chubbier then Sara and we got taken advantage of by a tough Man fiscally who forced us and paid us in cough drops when we had diamonds. I then found myself expressing myself like a mime and could not speak. I slowly danced in break dance towards a hospital where my girl Sara was trying to get a job.. "
 
what does this mean? 


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"I hope someday you'll join us, and the world will live as one."     ~John Lennon

I believe you miss your girlfriend so much that you have much anxiety about missing her.  I believe that anxiey is coming out in your dreams.  You know that you don't want to cheat on her, but you are a man.  Men are sexual and I believe that you are fighting your sexuality and that also is coming out in your dreams.  Your dream didn't in anyway mean that you cheated on your girlfriend.  It was only a dream.  I believe you might have a few more sex dreams before your girlfriend gets home.  Don't be frighted by them!!!  They are only showing your frustration and anxiety about missing your girlfriend and the sex that you are missing with her.  Try to make peace with yourself about her trip and stay in touch with her as much as possible.  I know something that helped my husband and me when we were apart for a bit....we had phone sex and it helped us a lot.  It may help you and her!!  Peace to you!!!! 

Posted 2008-05-03T16:38:38Z
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"If you feel exhilarated and enjoy the adultery in your dream, you are simply expressing a desire for excitement and daring, which you can, of course, exercise without cheating. If you dream about an actual adulter..."

The Complete Idiot's Guide Dream Dictionary

 

 

 

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