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Will someone care enough to help me out? no loans .

wat do people do whente they can't find a job and are in debt with bills trying to put food on the table and you might loose your gas @electric like me ? i owe bills i owe national grid . my fiancee can't find a ft job .hes put alot of applications in the restraunts for dishwasher and looking in the paper for more jobs nothings happening .i have a disable son who can hardly walk on ssi and still stuggling. i have one brother who has money he helps out wat he can do.another brother whos also rich he won't help .he justs enjoys his money ,lands and trips he figured he work hard but won't help out . i'm stress out .depession sleep disorder seeing doctor .no one will help out to care for peoples feeling . all they do on internet is scams lie and promises .will someone help if so contact me no strings .honesty is the best policey?


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If people fear the goverment, that's tyranny; if  the government fears the people, that's liberty...Thomas Jefferson

Sorry to hear your plight. Try local social services, churches, temp. work labor companies and local food pantrys. They can help you out. God bless 
Posted 2009-05-23T16:20:06Z
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Well you have a very serious issue (s) here. Couple minor possibilities for you that maybe you have already tried and maybe not. 1st, if you have been looking actively for work and can't find it, your eligable for unemployment insurance which lasts roughly 3 weeks. Because of your disabled son (sorry to hear that) your receiving SSI but you should be qualified for state funded medicaid and other Health NY related medical services. As far as your bills go, depending on your financial situation (doesn't sound too good unfortunately), you may be able to negotiate with national grid for an installment plan, personally your situation is perfect for your district senator and or congressman or women to handle. Truthfully, "honesty is the best policy" I would write to your local politicians. Your definately in the boat for state aid but I beleive you would qualify for some other more complicated services. Try what I have suggested, and if nothing else, take the time to write your political leaders. Politics maybe mostly old men talking but every now and then, one of those big wigs actually shows his or her true colors and assists his or her fellow man in time of need. Hope this helps.
Posted 2009-05-27T18:49:32Z
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The Catholic Church has excellent community services as well for anyone, not only Catholics. Do you have a home? If not you will automatically be eligible for several types of help because of your disabled son, depending upon his age. Do you utilize food banks? Call you electric and gas companies and ask about energy assistance also likely because of your disabled son, depending upon his age of course. Is he a minor?
Posted 2009-05-29T03:26:07Z
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Your fiance seems like a loser.  You both can easily find min. wage jobs.  Foreigners come here from Jamaica and work two to three minimum paying jobs in order to have pride and put food on the table.  Stop whining, there are so many opportunities out there, but you focus on negativity, so that is what will come to you, negativity.  Focus on positives and the world is your oyster babe.
Posted 2009-06-01T11:54:54Z
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I have been working for Blue Print Marketing Group, since the beginning of the year. I am not a millionaire (and if you come across a company who says they can make you one……………SCAM) but make a steady income.
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