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I'm kind of an introvert, and until I moved from ...

I'm kind of an introvert, and until I moved from Wyoming to the Washington D.C. area, I didn't attend many large social events.  There is one coming up that would be very beneficial for me to attend to help me meet new people in my career field.  It's kind of a new world for me.  I usually do okay with small types of networking like the one-on-one brief conversation and exchange of business card type. 


I know myself though and how I would walk into an event like this and feel swallowed up and speechless in the crowd. 


I need some tips on how to break the ice and navigate my way.  I usually find one person I know and talk to them for most of the event or sequester myself in a corner with a glass of wine or a crudités. 


1) What would you suggest to help me get more comfortable? 

2) I'd also like to know some unique or easy ways to break the ice and get to know others; plus, any other helpful info you've learned along the way -- anything from what you'd wear to subjects you'd have in mind.


Many thanks!


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be prepared.  discomfort comes with uncertainty.  if you prepare what you're going to say, anticipating common situations and preparing your own scripts, you'll have something concrete to focus on, and not on something or abstract you can't fight.  some say scripting is unnatural.  the most natural socializers i've seen say the same things over and over again to new people.  just they do it very well.

 btw, i'm from dc too.  best wishes!

 
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Friendships are for eternity

I would suggest that you ask a friend to go with you and work as a team, introducing you to other persons. Another way to avoid ending up in a corner is to call people who might be interested in attending and make an appointment. If none of the above are possible, stay close to the entrance. That way, you will be able to watch all people as they come in.

Also, I would recommend writing down your "elevator speech" (a brief 2 minute description of who you are, what you do, and how that helps your customers). Practice it... in front of a mirror, and build up confidence.

On the other hand, I don´t think icebreakers should be rehearsed or prefabricated. If you have the latest news on the field, and current events, it would come natural to come up with an interesting question or remark. I regard icebreakers as very context-specific, depending on the event, guests, mood, the crowd´s culture and your networking motives and objectives. So, how do you come up with appropriate icebreakers? By doing. Eventually, they will flow.

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