You need to consider the purpose of your computer. If it's not extensive or high end activity then why bother with high end components. After you establish where you will use it, it's time to select the components. Select components with brands known for "performance and stability", even though it seems that it will cost you more it will benefit you in the long run since they need not to be replaced unlike other brands. Also in selecting components check for "compatibility" to other components you have selected. One cause why computers don't last longer that they should is because of compatibility issues. After that you should also consider the cooling system of the computer case, a good colling system will make your components last longer.
Then now you can build up your computer. If you can find a store that offers free assembling then avail it if not i suggest you ask a friend who has experience in assembling it.