opps, I didn't finish before... Take it easy and let yourself heal. Once your body is feeling back to normal you can begin tackling the other things in your life. You will get through this time, and it will pass. You will look back at this time with relief that it is over. In the meantime, I suggest perhaps seeing a therapist to talk about all of this. It is a lot to go through alont and sometimes a therapist can help give some perspective.