Kellbell_xo,

You said he stated, "we're too different."  That's your answer.  It doesn't matter "who" broke up with "who".

As far as he was concerned, the relationship wasn't going in the direction that he wanted.  I'm sorry dear......Be thankful that you have an answer and leave it at that.  Read some good self-help books on relationships, appreciate the good times, forgive and forget the bad, lick your wounds and get on with your new life.  I'm not saying that it will be easy, but you will grow from the experience.  Happiness will come along again when you least expect it! 

Blessings,

~ nmpb ~