Do I break up with him now or not?

So I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 3 weeks now.  I started dating him thinking o.k. well I'll give him a shot.  Not seeing him more then a friend but I always told my friends even if you don't see them more then a friend give them a shot.  And I hate hypocrites.  So I gave him a shot.  He is a really sweet guy and always made me feel special but then we spent over 2 weeks seeing each other EVERY DAY.  It got to be too much for me and I told him I needed a little space.  We sort of got in a fight about it because he thought I was breaking up with him and so all today I thought we had broken up.  I was a little upset but not completely.  To be honest I know that I don't love him.  And I know that I won't love him no matter how much he loves me I just don't see him that way.  He is a great friend and a great guy but not the one for me...

I guess my question is what do you think I should do?  Should I break up with him now and tell him what?  or Should I wait it out and see what happens?  

Just please someone help me!?!? 


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Hi,

     You need to be honest to him about your real feelings for him.  Don't give him false hope.  That's the best thing you could do for him.

   Hope you will find a man who you'll feel mutual love, attraction and compatiblity.

God Bless.
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
If you are sure about your feelings (you don't love him and never will) than the best (and fair) thing to do is to break up.  Do it in a nice sensetive smart way (no reason to hurt him).  Don't let him live in some illusion and concentrate on trying to find your true love.
Best regards,

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The sooner you break up with him the better. You already know you could never fall in love with him, so there's no sense in stringing him along and hurting him more in the end. Just let him down easy. Tell him ,like you said,he's a great friend and a great guy but not the one for you. You haven't been together that long so he might be a little hurt but he'll get over it.
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