Why can't my boyfriend come during sex?

do you have alot of sex, does he masterbate? If yes to these answers then maybe you all need to refrain from this for awhile, because sometimes it's better to have anticipation on your side and then go for it, don't worry about him cumming so much as to let him satisfy you................... 

well maybe your just not enough..

or maybe he wants a 3 party male or femal one never knows

There are many things that COULD be wrong, but we'd need more information to figure it out, most likely.

Is he on any type of medication? Some drugs, like Zoloft, can cause this kind of problem (inorgasmia). Has he had this problem with other lovers? Is he sexually active with anyone else now? Does he masturbate, and if so, does he have any problems climaxing then? Has he always had this problem with you, or did it just start happening recently?

I strongly suggest that you use condoms ALL the time, or they aren't going to be very helpful to you in preventing STDs or pregnancy. If he objects to condoms because they reduce sensitivity, experiment with higher-end brands that are designed to be ultra thin.

Ginseng can help, too, in some cases.

He may prefer oral sex, and subconsciously holds back so he can be given head.  See what happens if you don't give him head afterwards, and if he doesn't masturbate for a while.  Maybe he can retrain himself to come during vaginal intercourse.

try anal sex, if you are both new to it this could be what sends him over the top...good luck

For some guys oral sex can feel better and bring climax easier than vaginal sex.  After all you can do more with your tongue than you can with your clitoris.  And he has nothing to do if you are giving oral and he is not ... all he has to do is lie inactive (or sit/stand) and RELAX.  No work, no concern about position, no concern about satisfying you and he can have great fantasy about how you are just loving his big penis in your cute, little mouth ... showing him your admiration and appreciation of his man stick.   But, in fairness to you he needs to learn to (and allow himself) to have climax during vaginal sex, if that is what you want or need (which would be common, but NOT always, as one might assume; some women, for various reasons, rather give oral than have vaginal sex at times, some most all the time).

You need 3 things with him:  1.  communication    2.  more communication and working on some changes to try and make it better for you.   3.  Therapy is the only way if the first 2 dont work.   If he wont go to therapy so that you can have a good sex life with him, he is what you call in fishing a "throw back" ... toss him.

ROB

Hi Sexilexi. I bet your boyfriend is REALLY afraid of getting you pregnant.  You know they say that even with condoms there is a risk of them breaking and sliding off.  I know your a little frustrated, I would be too, but you have to applaud the guy not only for his stamina, but because he cares about you that much. A baby out of wedlock with a man who's not ready to get married would be a hard road for you.. he obviously cares a lot about you and just doesn't want to have that conversation.

I say.. just have fun! You're a lucky girl!!!

u can tell him:

baby plz honest ly sice we were having sex,u never come

i want u 2 be relaxed and focus less on me because i want u to enjoy the feeling that im having multiple times...

hope that ull like this answer,this is my way resolving a prob ,so simple and obvious and daring :)

regards