Me and my boyfriend are having problems, help?

Haylie,  You're defending him way too much.  Let his actions speak for themselves.  He's 20 so he must be out of school and have a job right?  If he doesn't why?  45 minutes away is nothing, most of us drive that long to a job and home every day.  He doesn't have his own phone so that would indicate he either doesn't have enough money to get one or he isn't responsible enough to get one.  Either way it doesn't look good for him.  Them take the fact he has contacted other girls at least three times and doesn't remember doing it?  You need to find someone you can trust, makes an honest effort to see you several times a week, is willing to work so he has enough money to take you out and get a phone to call you several times a day and let you know he's thinking about you.

You are only 17. You have so much ahead of you. You seem to be too hung up on this guy. you need to get yourself together emotionally and find some other interesting people in your life. Getting married is the last thing that a guy who is 20 will be thinking about. It doesn't sound good that he can't "remember" talking with these other girls. You don't need a boyfriend who is a liar and can't be trusted. YOU CAN DO MUCH BETTER!! Check out the other fish in the sea. Best of everything to you.

Haylie ,  This guy isn't being honest with you , he is being deceitful and extremely disrespectful to you .  He does not value your opinion nor does he take your feelings in to account .  He is ENGAGING OTHER GIRLS ON HIS MY SPACE page , you saw this yourself .  Him telling you he doesn't remember doing this is a bunch of manure .  A key sentence of yours " I made him give me his e-mail and password to his myspace. "  If he is so honest and has nothing to hide why did you have to make him give you this ????  The only reason he is upset is because you caught him , he is not sorry for his behavior only sorry he got caught . He made the willful choice to bring outside interference in to your relationship .  Sweetheart I am sorry but actions speak louder than words . It is not a grudge ,  he broke the bond of trust with you , this is why you don't trust him and I wouldn't either .  Communication , trust , respect and fidelity are all a must in a relationship , you have none of these with this guy . You deserve better .  You have your whole life ahead of you do not marry this guy , don't settle for lies and deceit . Kick this guy to the curb .  He will only bring you more pain and sorrow.

Too much passion on both sides. Give life time to grow for each. It wont wear out or fall off.