My boyfriend is married and doesnt plan to leave ...

In my opinion, it depends on what you are looking for in life.  I would not plan my future around this person.  I would not miss any opportunity to date another nice man when faced with the right opportunity. As my mother always told me, when things are good, don't forget to save for a rainy day. 

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Hi,
No offence please and I appologise in advance for being extremely direct and blunt: He is "paying" you for love and sex..... it will lead to a dead end (and most probably to heartbreaks).  He won't let you see others and you'll remain alone on many occasions (weekends, holidays..... etc).  If that's what you want, OK, but if you want more, better move on (hard as it can be).   Don't let the immediate convenience blind you.  Sorry if I was too direct, I appologise.
Best regards,

That is a decision you will have to make since you are of adult age and responsible for your actions. Morally, you and he are in the wrong. You should know that both sides can get hurt especially his family. Above all, remember that the easiest road sometimes has painful surprises at the end.

If you stay with him, it's as if you're a full-time call girl. He pays you to do whatever he wants. Is that the kind of lifestyle you want?

Hi ,

     This man is just using you sexually and paying you for your sexual services.  I am a woman and I will not be proud to tell anyone about this.  I would rather work and pay my own way and be able to hold my head up.

     He does not respect  and love you, because if he does, he will divorce his wife and marry you and will give you all his undivided time and attention as a wife.  He will make you proud of yourself by being able to tell other people that you are his wife, not just a kept woman.

   There is no self- pride and honor in what you are doing.  Please do not ruin your future by limiting yourself to this man who will not give you the PROPER SOCIAL STATUS.  You are hurting his wife and children .  BUT ABOVE ALL THIS, YOU ARE NOT PLEASING GOD because  of your dealings with a married man.  You are committing an immoral act.