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Me and my boyfriend love each other so much but he has a kid by accident

me and my boyfriend love each other so much and nothing in the world can change it...but we are 15 and he had a 1 night stand by accident with 1 of his ex's and now he has a kid i love him so much but i dont know if i can accept that he has a kid that he loves just as much as me. can someone please tell me what i should do and how i should feel about this; i've aready told him about all this and he understands how i feel but i still don't know what to do


what should i do to finally accept this?
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You and your parents would be most fortunate if he didn't perform an encore of his "one-night stand" on you. Who is caring for his son; I am sure that at 15 he is unable to assume any responsibility.

You are only 15 and far, far from being an adult and you lack the ability to assume the responsibilities of an adult. So go back to being a happy and fun-loving teenager; enjoy fun with girls, outings, hikes, picnics, swimming and stay away from those boys like your erstwhile lover. Don't play with fire especially with someone more experienced and much more irresponsible than you. If there is a mistake it is you and your family who will be paying for that mistake while he can go on with his irresponsible life. 


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I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not!

You don't have one night stands by accident.

There also shouldn't be compitition between a baby and a girlfriend. "He has a kid that he loves just as much as me" As a parent, you should love your kids more than some person you have been dating for a few weeks or months. Do you think if you had a kid that the father should love the new girlfriend "just as much" as the kid? I should think not!

 Date someone without kids. You are 15 and shouldn't even have to think about having a "step kid" in your life. You are never going to accept the kid.


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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 1 year now so it hasn't been a few weeks or months.


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I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not!

I think you missed my point. You are too young to accept this kid in his life!

...and a year may seem like a lifetime to you, but it isn't! Trust me!


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