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My boyfriend can not longer maintain and erection

my boyrfiend and i have not had sex in 4 months. I know it is not that he is cheating on me, he has gone thru major stresses in his life. He is laid off, without a car and generally feeling like he is less of a man. He is a "redneck" and believes that providing for his family is what makes a man. I think these issues are what are causing his problems. When the problems started, he would get an erection, but could not maintain it. Also, morning erections have stopped. Now, he doesn't even want to try to have sex. I have not nagged or complained over the months, however, I am starting to get frustrated. He cannot go see a doctor due to him being out of work, no insurance and not enough money to pay for a visit. Is there anything we can do at home to try to remedy this situation and get our sex life back on track?


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Home improvement projects, "Get'er done."

Littlelili, my heart goes out to you and your man. I truly hope that you both will get through this soon. I don’t know if any of the home or over the counter remedies will work, but I’m sending you some basic information. In the mean time there is one thing that you must remember when dealing with men and E.D., try your best not to talk about it to your man. I know the experts will say that you should talk about it, but I’m afraid that his ego is at risk if you don’t say the right things and it may just seem like added pressure to perform. Do not make any references to the fact that he can’t get an erection. Don’t look at him with pity or try to “fix” him. I know that this may sound crazy, but it is very easy to make this situation worse. Stress is taking a toll on your man and the more that he thinks about his problems, the worse his stress will become. For now the best thing to do is to become educated on the effects of stress and E.D. Do not allow your man to see that you are worried. Best of luck and keep the pressure off.

 

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Newly Republican as of  October of 2009..I feel children and women should come before men..Only real men don't cheat in relationships 

He  is  under stress issues  but  I feel  that  sex and love  should  not  go out  the window  for  good...If he  can't  maintain  a  erection...He should  seek counseling and  get  some help...I mean there is cheap  penis  rings  he  can  use , So  you  and him can   at  least  engage  in  some type  of  sex life activity...You know  severe  depression can cause the  same problem  E.D.

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Viagra! But this is only treating the symptoms not the cause. I understand how he feels, it is important that he gets himself back on his feet to feel like a man again for all aspects of his life.

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