Littlelili, my heart goes out to you and your man. I truly hope that you both will get through this soon. I don’t know if any of the home or over the counter remedies will work, but I’m sending you some basic information. In the mean time there is one thing that you must remember when dealing with men and E.D., try your best not to talk about it to your man. I know the experts will say that you should talk about it, but I’m afraid that his ego is at risk if you don’t say the right things and it may just seem like added pressure to perform. Do not make any references to the fact that he can’t get an erection. Don’t look at him with pity or try to “fix” him. I know that this may sound crazy, but it is very easy to make this situation worse. Stress is taking a toll on your man and the more that he thinks about his problems, the worse his stress will become. For now the best thing to do is to become educated on the effects of stress and E.D. Do not allow your man to see that you are worried. Best of luck and keep the pressure off.
http://www.in-bed.info/en/home/index.php
http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/conditionsetoh/a/erectiledysfunc.htm