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Is my boyfriend more interested in my sister??

So, i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and things are going O.K. they probably could be a little better,  he is the sweetest guy , total gentleman, he holds doors opens doors , kisses my forhead, brings flowers , you know, real old fashioned gentlman sorta thing. in the beginning he told everyone i was exactly what he was looking for, and i was like amazing and all this stuff and we were like so into eachother  and he asked me to be his girlfriend on the 2nd or 3rd date. He works alot and calls and txts me randomly throughout the day just to say im beautiful and that he misses me , and he calls right on time every night. but the thing that is bothering me lately is that he constantly brings up my sister in conversation. she is a great deal prettier than me and she is def skinnier. i am thinking that maybe he just wants to do her instead of me. because he has asked me about her sex life, like where she is all the time , if she cheats on her boyfriend , he brings up things shes done or said in the past and laughs about them just so he can talk about her. i had a dream that he and my sister got married, i told him about it and he insists that hes mine. i dont know it just bothers me because half our conversations are about her and i know i need to not be jelous of my little sister, but i have this strong instinct that he might be more interested in her than me. He does come see me like every chance he gets, and he tells me that im his baby and all this crap, but i cant help but to think that maybe he just wants my sister. Does it sound like he does or am i just being insecure or paranoid? its just shes basically always the jist of the conversation. he rarely asks about me or talks about US as a couple. i dont know its 2 months in so im just gunna try to suck it up and see what happens and not blow up and make a deal out of it, i just need an opinion. ive hung up on him and been totally pissed cuz he talks abotu her endlessly and right after he talks about her he says ok, ill let you go, i miss you. sleep well , all this stuff, and im just like in tears and frustrated by the end of the convo.  i must be some physco jelous bitch.


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I don't think you are a "physco jelous bitch." He has given you reason to feel shaky. I think you should give him another month of dating and then speak to your sister openly. You will then know what to decide.

 
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I think that you have a very legitimite reason to be feeling the way that you do. You need to tell your boyfriend once and for all that your relationship is about eachother and not about your sister. That your sister is not to be the topic of conversation anymore. There is no reason to be talking about her all of the time. If he can't seem to understand that, then you need to rethink your relationship because his head is obviously not in the right place. Wishing you only the best Smile .

 
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"LEARNING is fundamental!"

God, Country, Self..in that order.

VISION, Change and Education=PROGRESS

lalaBeez,

Does your sister live with you?  If so, maybe you should be insisting that instead of him coming over...the two of you go somewhere else to spend time together.  This is the best way to separate what is going on in this relationship.  I hope this helps.

Blessings,

~ nmpb ~

Posted 2009-11-03T20:51:04Z
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