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I've never had a boyfriend - help!

I'm new to this site and a little weird about asking questions rather than just answering them but here I go...

 

I'm sixteen and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never kissed a guy or held hands, or anything. Only one guy has been open with his attraction to me but I wasn't attracted to him, so that didn't work out. There's no question about my sexuality, I'm definitely attracted to guys but it's like they're not attracted to me. I'm not overweight, I'm not hideously unattractive, I like to think of myself as fairly intelligent and normal. I am, I think, a lot more mature than a lot of people but I wouldn't think that would really matter, I've met plenty of mature guys in the 16-18 age range. Do you guys have any ideas on what's wrong with me or what I'm not doing right? I'd like to think that, oh, I'm still really young but I think that most girls are getting started when they're like 12. 

 

Help would be much appreciated! 


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From the tiny picture you look like an attractive young lady, and seem to be rather outgoing judging from your choices of extracurricular activities (someone with really low self esteem wouldnt be caught dead belly-dancing).  Do you have difficulty talking to the guys you're interested in?  Or is it a problem finding guys you're interested in that are interested back?  I had a similar problem when I was 14, all the girls I was interested in were seniors, gorgeous, popular, and taken.  I eventually realized that somehow my standards had gotten all out of whack and had a long talk with myself about what exactly I wanted...since then I've had no problem finding a date.


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