Has anyone here ever cheated on their boyfriend ...

Often times, people cheat because there is something lacking in their current relationship. Whether it's the original excitement you feel when you start dating someone, or a need to rebel against your current partner, cheating is always a sure way to destroy your current relationship to a point of no return.

I cheated on my first boyfriend ever who I dated while in high school (I think I was a late bloomer as I only started dating when I was 18 years old). I don't remember how exactly it happened but I hung out with a guy friend on a night that my boyfriend cancelled plans with me. We went to see a movie and ended up making out. I felt really bad about it afterwards; I didn't tell my boyfriend about it, but looking back now, I realize that I became clingy and extremely needy because of my mistake. I think I was trying to "fix" things and make myself feel better by trying to be a better girlfriend. He broke up with me a couple weeks after it happened because he said he wasn't looking for a clingy girlfriend. So I'd definitely say my behavior is what destroyed the relationship. If I could do it all over again, I would not have cheated. I realize that I may have destroyed my only chance at true love as I really think he was my soul mate.

I cheated on my boyfriend the other night and it is not because my boyfriend is coming short in anyway the truth is we have a long distance relationship. I am 33 and have been with him for almost a year. He lives almost 700 miles away and I have not cheated on him until last weekend. I am not saying I was right or wrong but I will say long distant relationships are hard and he may very well have done the same thing behind my back as well. We are not engaged nor are we married.

One of the reason I feel he has also cheated is because I have found womens deoderantat his home, a womans sweater behind his couch and a soda bottle with lipstick on it in his car. & he works in the nightlife and goes out to clubs, concerts and events almost every night of the week....

At this point I do not plan to carry on a relationship with this other person because I am in love with my boyfriend. However, after I cheated I felt like I had to break it off with my man (out of respect.) I told him we cannot meet eachother's needs and that we should split up and find someone closer to home so we can have full relationships. However it was a hard conversation to have and we decided that I will move to his city in a couple of months so we can be together. Everytime we're together everything is great and it is not in my character to cheat so I hope for the best. However I do not feel guilty about cheating I have prayed about it and I promised myself I will not tell him. I have forgiven myself and feel like it is unrealistic for him or I to fully commit to eachother while we're living this far apart. I have also promised myself to him fully commit to him when we are living nearby each other and I expect him to do the same.