My boyfriend cheated on me

No one else can answer this for you... This all comes back to you... ask yourself.... do you feel it will or could happen again??? What are the circumstances of the betrayal??? If it was an ongoing affair (happened more then once) chances are he will do it again... Where and what relations does he have to the other woman??? Does he still see her??? How will is he to talk to you and be honest with the details??? What is your intuition telling you??? Are you still mad?? Hurt?? How do you feel about trusting him??? What has he done to ensure this will not repeat itself??? And finally... not to put a damper on you but... chances are greater then not... this will happen again... it is possible this is one random act... but that is not the norm... good luck:))

Hi Sophia,
My friend Gemingrl gave you an excellent answer (gave her 2 thumbs up). The answer comes down to: If you believe him that it will never return, give a last and final chance.....  if you don't believe him (or even hesitste) better move on and save yourself the future pains.....
Best regards,

Gemingrl and OronD are right.  If you're hesitating and wondering what to do, it's for a reason.  And of course he's "so nice" while begging you back.  You think he'd be snarky about it?  Question is, why did he cheat on you in the first place?  If you thought things were well and then this, maybe it's not all well. I'm sorry. What if he's testing other waters and so far they haven't worked out so he wants you back.  At least "until."  Curious, how'd you find out?  He confess or get caught?  If he up and confessed out of the blue he may be sorry and maybe a final try 'might' be worth it.  Emphasis on the final.  He blew your trust.  Always hard to completely get that back.  If he was caught, then perhaps things aren't what he wants them to be with you and is looking around, while still keeping you around "just in case".  Good luck to you.  *Kat

okay i know he must be nice and allll but if you take him back he will think ur easy trust me its happend before and it just hurt me twice as bad

Hi darling .. my advise to you would be this ..

if you love him .. and i mean love him as in would do anything for ... then ..... take him back ... but only, if you know he loves you the same way you love him ... it may of just been a stupid mistake which im sure he regrets with all his heart .. some people say .. if they cheat once .. they'll cheat again .. but he wont if he loves you .. give him one more chance .. as I'm sure if it was you .. you would want another chance to make things right .. but .. if he does it again .. its more than a mistake .. its a nasty habit he simply wont grow out of .. and make sure you tell him .. this is his final Chance ... so don't screw it up ....

i hope you will use this advise .. and i hope it has helped you in what you have decided to do .. good luck and best wishes to you for the future .. jade .. x

u know my boyfriend cheated on me 2 when he told me i felt physically sick but we stayed together we have such a nice time together my boyfriend is muslim and planing to tel his dad about me im also pregnant but we need to talk about that when he gets back from holidays anyways sometimes when im on the fone to my friends and they tel me something about the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with i get soo angry and upset i even deleted my friends number just so i would never hear that other girls name its crazy i know plus when i think of my boyfriend sometimes i cant get the other girl out my head its hurts soo much but when we're together its completely different its up2u wa u do but if u leave ur boyfriend u hav a chance to start freshh even though it might take time to get over him but som1 else wil love u 10times more then he does if u stay with him n u trust him again things wil be fine aswel just make sure he dnt do it again!