What is it with Men and Porn! They are already excitable enough...  (the wind could blow) type thing!  Sadly, the poor girls dilemma has become of epidemic proportion.. sleezy girls are getting financially rich, and Men are getting Addicted.  My advice would be that if a woman is discusted by Pornography, hates it and doesn't want it in her life, she should treat it like any other addiction she dosen't want in her life.  If she is a devout Christian, suggest she meditate on 2nd Corinthians, chapter 6 before accepting this Man as her Husband. The way I know it, is a Husband is Over the Wife, the head of the household to be Respected and Trusted.  If a Woman knows she could be settling in for a "problemed Marriage" because she loves him, she needs to stay peaceful, and prepare to do a Spiritual battle, a lot of Praying, possibly for the rest of her life. Addiction is a beast and can always lead to worse things.  I agree with OronD on one thing, (Serious open communication) always!  But Personally, I also believe that picking a Husband IS like choosing your favorite icecream!!!