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I have a very close girlfriend who has a fiance who loves to watch internet pornography. She loves him very much but is afraid that they are not going to have a happy marriage life if he does not stop this. She does not approve of pornography. He denies this but she saw that he has a porn website in his laptop.
She wants some advice if she will break up with him or not.
Love is the battery of life....
Hi,If he watches those porn movies for fun and only rearely than she doesn't have to worry (many do it mainly due to curiosity) but if he is edicted that's a different story. In that case the best thing she can do is discuss that matter with him (deeply and seriously). What bothers more than anything else in your question is: She treats that relation as an icecream: "Shall I buy it or not ?".... as if it doesn't matter to her weather to stay or to leave..... If that's the case, she is not sure about her relations and that is a bad situation (more than porn) and should attent to it first.... Having relations with someone you are not sure about is bad and frustarting. Best personal warm regards,
What is it with Men and Porn! They are already excitable enough... (the wind could blow) type thing! Sadly, the poor girls dilemma has become of epidemic proportion.. sleezy girls are getting financially rich, and Men are getting Addicted. My advice would be that if a woman is discusted by Pornography, hates it and doesn't want it in her life, she should treat it like any other addiction she dosen't want in her life. If she is a devout Christian, suggest she meditate on 2nd Corinthians, chapter 6 before accepting this Man as her Husband. The way I know it, is a Husband is Over the Wife, the head of the household to be Respected and Trusted. If a Woman knows she could be settling in for a "problemed Marriage" because she loves him, she needs to stay peaceful, and prepare to do a Spiritual battle, a lot of Praying, possibly for the rest of her life. Addiction is a beast and can always lead to worse things. I agree with OronD on one thing, (Serious open communication) always! But Personally, I also believe that picking a Husband IS like choosing your favorite icecream!!!
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