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Re: boyfriend of 9 years broke things off

Hi, You answered one of my questions about a month ago. You made a lot of sense, so I hope it is okay that I am sending this to you. I blocked my ex's email and his family's email addresses. Is it possible that he has still contacted me because he feels guilty for what he has done? When I did speak to him when he would call, he would comment right away that "you're in a good mood today". It was almost as if he needed me to be happy to feel better about what he had done. I know I shouldn't be analyzing this, but in some ways my heart still does hold out hope.


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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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You blocked his emails, but he has still found a way to reach you?

Yes, anything is possible. It's possible he feels guilty. It's also possible that he wants to keep you available in case he doesn't find anybody else.

You will have to decide if you are willing to risk being right back in the same situation if you should happen to get back together with him, but things do not work out again.

I suggest you ask yourself if anything has changed. By that I mean is there a significant difference (in behavior and/or attitudes) that would make a relationship with him better now than what you previously had?

If so, and you both agree you want to try, then more power to you.

If not, then why keep hoping for something that isn't going to happen?

Posted 2009-08-29T01:38:14Z
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