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Is my bff into me or am i being mislead?

During high school I told her my feelings and came out to her she didn’t feel the same way and she was fine that I am gay, we later became close best friends…now things has been very complicating. Last 2 weeks ago I told her to give me my space because she can be very clingy and flirty which makes me think she is sending me mix messages and I cant get over her when she continues to become so physically close to me. but suddenly she told me that she is confused about herself that she might be bi curious and have unsure feelings for me…I didn’t know what to say till the next day I ask her why she has these feelings and she said because she doesn’t want to lose my friendship…I didn’t get it so I ask her to stop leading me on like that (she did this before) and she claims that she told me to move on but she never said that…it like one day she likes me but then the next day she doesn’t…she wants to be just friends as so do I but she confuses me by telling me she has unsure feelings and that when I ask her do you see us being more ? she said not at the moment no…so is she into me? Or am I misleading?
we are 22 yrs old


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Maybe it's time to take a break. Give her and yourself the space and time you both need to sort this out. It does indeed sound like she is confused and unsure about her feelings for you. I would tell her that you treasure the friendship, and because you do, maybe some time apart would help clear things up.

 

I believe she may be unsure with how she feels. I agree with mom2344 that you both should take some space from each other. Being in a relationship is never worth ending a friendship.

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