What should i do if my bf says i love u?

hey well good one on telling him the truth put if u dont love him try to be his best mate

hey well good one on telling him the truth put if u dont love him try to be his best mate

Well you can be honest and say maybe give it some time and lets see how you feel then. And you also can tell him that you can't be mad for someone not loving you. You can't force someone into loving you. And when he gets mad that is not an adult way of dealing with relations if he really likes you. He should be interested in you and how you feel and set your feeling before his feelings.

Well it was smart to tell him how you felt but you could have done it a different way. Like, when he asked you you could have said " I don't love you like that yet..." or something like that. 

Hi,

     You did the right thing of being honest with your boyfriend.  That would save you lots of heartaches down the line.  It is not easy to feel rejected and it's understandable that he was upset.  Now that you told him how you felt, you have to discuss with him  the status of your relationship with him.  By telling him that you did not feel the same way he felt means that your relationship has now become an ordinary friendship.  It is now up to you not to give mixed messages.  You need to politely refuse to go with him if he invited you to go to dinner, or watch a movie or to go somewhere with him that will give him a chance for physical intimacy.  And the number of meetings with him should be less and less so that he will start forgetting about you and will make him try to find someone who will share the same mutual love feelings.

     In the process , you need to be kind, understanding and compassionate because he is hurting .  Time will heal his hurting inside.

You take care.