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Is it bad if you go back with the same guy more ...

Is it bad if you go back with the same guy more than 3 times?


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Duh! Depends on reason you broke up. If it was what he did, cheating, etc. There are more people for you than him. Are you someone he falls back on when the affair goes bad. I've been that guy. Always ready to forgive. No longer. Move on.


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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

Clearly there is something wrong with your relationship if you've broken up on 3 separate occasions. Why torture yourself and continue to go back into it? I think you should read It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy by Greg Behrendt. You might learn a thing or two from reading it.

It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

It seems crazy to me to go back to the same guy more than 3 times.  That means that the 2 people don't have a lot in common.  So what's the use of doing this?  It is just a waste of time to be with that person.


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I wouldn't say it's the best idea, but sometimes women don't always make the best choices.  I've been guilty of it.  I think the question you need to ask yourself is, "Why do we keep breaking up/separating in the first place?"  There is obviously a reason why you all cannot stay together, something has to be wrong with the relationship.  Just be sure he is not using you for sex and make sure you are okay with the way things are.  If this isn't your ideal situation then get out of it. 

But hey, I get it, it's hard to get over guys and sometimes there is just that one that does i for you.  Be strong and if you think you should move on from him, as I assume you do since you think it might be bad, then move on.  Good luck!


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There's a reason for the break-ups, so why keep going back?! There's no real future in an "on again,off again" type of relationship. If you can even call that a relationship.Unless you plan on being with this guy long term and working out your differences so there are no more break ups, you're really just wasting your time.


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yes.. i know from past experience i broke up 4 times and finally on that 4th time left him for good. some things that help is to write down all the positives and negatives and the reasons why you broke up all of the othe times. it will help to figure out what you want.

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