does a bachelors party consider cheating?

to be honest with you, i do not identify with the term "cheating". i believe people should just let each other be. if someone wants to be with me he will be. and if he doesnt he wouldnt. i can also occasionaly find myself attracted to a guy other than my partner, that means nothing. the love between you is what you want to focus on.

I have to disagree with Hanitaa.

Ask yourself this, if you went to a bachelorette party and there was some half-naked guy thrusting himself at you, would you feel comfortable touching and telling your boyfriend about this later? If you wouldn't, it's cheating. And if you would, than your relationship may not be as serious as you think.

No matter what the situation is, whether it's a bachelor party or not, there's no reason for a guy to actually touch. Yes, it's ok to watch, as we cannot always know what our eyes will see ahead of us, but actually making the move with our hands (or any other body part) is clearly a conscious decision. That is cheating.