I have an attorney friend at work that agreed to file my divorce for me as a favor. I ended up not going through with the divorce at that time, as I was pregnant and decided to give my husband another chance. After the baby, my husband reverted back to his old ways, and I ended up in an affair with my friend from work. The problem is, he also has a girlfriend. I am now divorced, and this affair has been going on for a little over two years now. I told someone at work, and another co-worker overheard me, and it got back to his girlfriend. Now, in order to keep her, he proposed to her, and of course I am devasted. I finally came clean about my feelings for him, as I hadn't acted like I wanted anything more than our friendship and sex. So, now it's all out in the open. I want him to leave her, and he said he is considering it, and is very confused, he doesn't know whether to leave or stay. He did say if it wasn't for meeting me, he would marry her. He is also saying he doesn't know if he can trust me because I told someone at work. He has been lying to his now fiancee for over half of their entire relationship, and I am willing to look past that. I feel like such a fool for waiting, but I honest believe that we compliment each other and could have a great relationship. I am really hurting over this and need some advice on what to do.