I'd really appreciate your advice: boyfriend issues

If you love him TRIE to make it work.but my boyfriend did the same thing i found out that he was seeing his x.so be careful and dont get hurt,and if you dont feel the same way as you use to just become Friends.                                                  HOPE THIS HELPS. LOVE LUNA                                                                                                                                                  

In my opinion based on experience and im 63 with 20 years lasting marriage behind me when a good girl and a good boy like u two are together and it does not end in marriage it will be the boy who will first get bored. Therefore its best u live him cos he as alrady left u only has no guts to tell u. I advise u tell him that u dont want him as boyfriend nor friend any more cos u got bored. He must not see that u saw throug him that he has already left u. He is waiting for u to say or do something that will be his excuse to break with u. Its not his fault that he got bore and u havent cos good girls seldom get bored with good and not even bad boys if they like and love him like u do so please dont give him the excuse to leave u instead u leave him as if it were for another reason and not his behaviour towards u recently. U cannot save the situation. So save yr selfrespect and even his respect by leaving him not telling him why u do so or telling u got bored or u stopped loving him or even that u like somebbody else. This may even bring him back but he will go away again if u dont change yr devoted behaviour tovards hime. U have much to learn yet. Sincerity and open devotion is exactly the opposite of erotic love and it kills it. If u manage to leave him make him chase u again dont be available as before play a little be misterious change yr moods and minds etc. This is an art ull learn but please dont learn it the hardest possible way which is being left by either good or bad boy regardless.

I never left a good boy

All my boyfriends before my dead now husband left me

Learn from me

This is like attacking before being attacked once u see attack is comming

And his atack ie leaving u is coming be sure

By no means tell him u are not satisfied with him

Make him believe u left him for some other yrs own reasons tht will hurt his selfesteemas man cos he already hurt yrs as woman

The question about yr friends is not so much that they are no more couple with their ex boyfriends but who left whom

There ar no equals in man-woman erotic relationships. Its war.Only one wins

U be the winner lon looser

Please

And let me know

Good luck in leaving him so he gets hurt and u seem not to have gotten hurt. He mustnot know u cry and ull cry a lot

Make yourself pride and feel the hurt by him humiliating u by first getting bored with u insted u with him

Make it look its u

And take good care no friend of yrs tell him u cry

So keep it for yourself

In my opinion the best cure for the jerk who gets bored by such a sweet girllike u is u instantly find another boyfriend for yr selfesttemwounded therapy and for him believing its true u dont want him any more and mainly in order to hurt him

Cos he hurt u

Why else would u writ to us

Tsahpina

Xxx

This does sound like things are wearing thin, but I wouldn't pin point the "problem" on you. Your juniors, so there is plenty to think about.  ACT/SAT testing, jobs, friends, college, grades, sports, family and then your boyfriend thrown in there too.  This is a lot to handle and I'm sure he's feeling the pressure to do well in school.  He sees that his friends are now broken up and I'm sure he's not looking forward to that happening between you two.  His friends might be able to shed some light on the situation of him being more distant than usual though. They may be pressuring him into considering a single life.  If you truely care about him and love him, then make a point to talk to him about it.  Just mention it now and then to make sure he knows its on your mind, but it doesn't make a big deal about it.  If you two are meant to be, then you will be able to work it out and if not, he sure doesn't know what he's missing.  I hope this helps or at least tells you the truth you may not want to hear, but needed to. Good Luck! =)