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"annoying" guys?

Women will often complain that a guy is “annoying”. What do they mean when they say this?

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   A lot of young, hot women say that men are "annoying".



   What they REALLY mean is that men are BORING and that they feel no ATTRACTION for them.

   As strange as the truth is, ATTRACTION is NOT triggered by being a "nice" guy.

   Nice will never do it.

   Of course, as you know, I never suggest that men act in an ABUSIVE way...

   But if you want to get out of the "annoying" category, you MUST start BEHAVING AND COMMUNICATING DIFFERENTLY.

   PREDICTABILITY is ANNOYING to women.

   Being CLINGY is ANNOYING to women.

   Acting like a WUSSY is ANNOYING to women.

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Saying a man is annoying can mean a hundred different things.  Maybe the guy calls or emails her way too much.  Maybe when she actually answers the phone for him or gets together with him, whatever he may talk about is annoying. If a guy always talks about the same subject, like his job or ex-girlfriend for example, that is really annoying.  Maybe the way he talks is annoying (either really loud or very dull).  My personal pet pieve is when a guy interupts me all of the time. Let me finish what I have to say before you throw in your two cents!!! Whatever "this man" is doing, maybe he should change up his routine!


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speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

For me if I say a man is annoyig if:  I don't like him at all and he keeps calling me. sending e-mails and simply refuses to acknowledge I don't like him inspite of being told that I just want him for a friend and nothing more.   That is annoying.


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even though the sun is so powerful there is always half of the earth that is not lit up.

What they mean when they say this is that they really are annoying.  They might do the same thing over and over again even thought they told them to stop. 

It could also mean that they are TOO attracted to them.  They keep calling, emailing, or texting and they want them to stop.  It does get REALLY annoying.  Hence why girls call guys annoying.


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It is quite possible that the young man has only a limited interest in the opposite sex and that the interest he displays that annoys her is a constant pleading that they become intimate. If this is the situation, i would politely tell him the truth. For example: "tom, i feel that your only attraction toward me is connected with your desire to gratify your lust and physical knowledge about females, thus, it is now time for you to spend more time alone or take more cold showers. If this is not the case, might i suggest that you stop trying to discuss a sexual relationship and find out what interests me more than sexual excitement. That's to say that your behavior is annoying me and robbing me of my serenity and self-esteem. Please find some new interests to discuss. Now, that was long and complicated. Let me tell you that if i had been born female and was being annoyed by a male friend, i would simply end the friendship or relationship asap. Do you want to spend your life with someone who annoys you? Dump the guy, please. Uncle rob....


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I think sometimes annoying to me is just that a guy can't seem to get a grip. Everything you say to them they hear something else. And it's the little things to that can be annoying. Stupit stuff like going into the hallway, and he says get me a soda. When the kitchens in the other direction. Or flipping channels during the comercials to see what else is on.


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