Why are so many people, especially people on the ...

Hurting people, hurt other people

I used to go through that when I was on C.B. radio.Simply put Cowards use anonymity to be "brave". Much like the "Hackers" who send viruses, they all have EGO problems. (>>>> "LOOK WHAT I DID!") My advice? If you get a "nasty" Think to YOURself.. "How sad they must be to need empowerment by being cruel?" Bright side? ... Every time I get something like that, I say to myself... "How blessed I am that I had good parents that taught me better!" Heck, I'm no Saint, but. In my view, If I leave this world having done more to help than hurt, I got a fair chance in Heaven? Virus senders consider themselves "Brilliant" but...If only they could understand the pain they cause? ( Many Puter owners aren't merely inconvenienced, they are sometimes financially put in dire straights to repair the damage these "Brilliant" people do?) ( EGO) You asked "What do they hope to accomplish?" >>> Assuaging their own sad personalities I'd guess. Truth is... If one is fairly confidant, reasonably happy, and has pride in themselves, they DON'T do that? Asha, don't hate them. Feel pity for them. I had a "friend" who cheated me out of $25. He even bragged about it to another. My take? "He" lost a friend who would have glady given him a $1000 if in need. I lost $25. Cheap price for the truth! The important lesson here is... Anyone who is "picked on" doesn't have the problem. "THEY" do!!!? Anybody who is not Cindy Crawford, or Brad Pitt, or not genetically "brilliant" etc etc etc ... sO WHAT? We're all born naked, only with a name. Those who die with THAT proudly>>>? On MY epitath, if someone inscribes... "He died before he made a million, but made lots of friends," Good enough! Your fat? Your ugly? Your really stupid?" Those who say that are the real ugly ones, because for whatever reasons, they "Need" to hurt to make themselves feel better. Weirdly, Jimmy Durante is one of my heroes. Certainly not handsome. Born with a "Snoze" Guiness might note? Yet... He took what life threw at him, "Used it" and.. Not only got rich but... Millions loved him. Millions loved him? Wow? I'm sure he would have liked to be Cary Grant, but.. Instead of wallowing in his "disability" he turned it into a "Gift." I think he said like Popeye... "I yam what I yam?" Asha.. Here's the Universal secret the "A-Holes" don't get>>>>>> The only thing you need to have others like you is... "Like yourself first!" Decades ago, I had an "Epiphany." As a divorcee, I started going to clubs and "struck-out" more often than not. Major reason? I yapped up myself more than heard. I found "negatives" in other people,life, politics, whatever. One night, I met my "female opposite." Initially, I was symphathetic, ( Most of her "problems" were real,) BUT>>> After a few weeks of hearing her misery, I started to avoid her. Why? Well, EVERYBODY has problems? The thing is.. When you sulk and live them out 24/7 Your no Jimmy Durante? She was pretty. Cute little body. But... Depressing to be around! Same night..... I met a "chubby sort" I almost put her off because even sans heels we were the the same height. ( It's a "Guy-thing") but...... "Ms X" asked me to dance while kicking off her high heels. She wasn't as pretty as the "Moaner" nor as slimish, but....... I was impressed about her attitude. 1. >>> She looked me in the eye unafraid of my response. That was spooky? (If I turned her down, "Ohh well?") Asha Nice likes nice? 2. When I saw her bared feet as she asked, I thought....... "We've barely talked, we're like strangers, and yet"...... "She's kind enough to consider MY feelings?" I started noticing how pretty her Irish eyes were. We danced a "fast dance" then..A slow one. "Chubby" wasn't an issue. I got little rhythm. But. First time I actually didn't feel "goofey" on the dance floor. Optimum ending to this would be we married but... I DID introduce her to my pal Ed who did. And.. Happily ever after! Ed is the kind of guy who...If you gripe, asks..... "You really feel that way?" The man's a super good guy and genius as per emotional crap. LOL It's like he takes the "Gripe-Sword" out of your hand with niceness? Anyway, point is... YOU don't have the problem. "THEY" do? Once ya get this.... "I like me as I am" thing down pat, things start to work out eventually. ONE thing I've seen in my life over and over...... Yesterday is yesterday. Today is a WHOLE NEW LIFE! It has sometimes STUNNED me at times how.. It can all change 180 degrees in a day! Really! ASha, forget the "Troublemakers". They are ALL just emotional infants!!!!!

  Just a way for sad,scared lonely people to get attention even if its negative.Might have been raised by people who only noticed them when they were acting up..Sometimes it is just weird people who think its funny to get others angry on the web.

  My personal feelings are ,I try not to say anything in here I would not say in public!! I try to help if I can!! If I can't I don't answer that question

Oh dear, Sybvil's over here now? Sorry, Asha!