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I have more then a gut feeling my man is cheating on me, but he's like a webmaster, and I have no clue about computers. So I'm looking for an affordable internet detective, or a hero to help me attain proof of his lies, and his cheating actions. We've been together for 9-10 yrs. and I believe he's been keeping many things from me sence 2006. I'm really not the kinda' girl that would even allow this sort of thing to happen to me in a personal relatonships, but this time I have a 7yr. old child to think about. So I must go about this with a level head. On the internet, he has refused, to share his e-mail, bank account info. passwords, everything I could possibly use to break away from his grasp, has been locked up, on redirected or hidden 404 pages. I've stumbled onto some of his dirty deeds before, however he has always managed to use some lame excuse, to dodge any of my questionable doubts, as well as distroy, erase, or hide any of the proof i did run into. This is slowly killing me as he knows he has traped me in a position, where I can't seem to get out of. I'm completely lost, and he's probably monitoring me now. This is the 2nd time I've written this question, sence the last time my lap top, geeked on me before I was done. i'd like to find a site, I can chat on for advice, but i always seem to end up on a singles or dating website, that manages to tell me I need some application, or program to even chat. If you've got the answer to where I can get my proof before he can twist things around, making me look like a nutcase, while dening, any logical truth. Then please share. 


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Louisa May Alcott

first of all, yedda is a great place to find people to talk to, so welcome.  secondly, i think that you need to get yourself out of this relationship.  you can find a way to be fine with your child, and to get by without this man.  you cannot live like this, knowing that he is hiding things from you.  to me, it doesn't even matter whether he is cheating on you... if he is making you feel this way, and he is hiding things from you, then you deserve better, and you shouldn't be holding on to this relationship.  decide what it is that you want and go for it.  tell him that you want a relationship built on trust, and that you see no trust, and because of this you want to end it.  don't be afraid, take charge and tell him how it is. 

Posted 2009-07-12T09:50:29Z

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