I am interested in a guy who I work with. I am a hostess in a restaurant and he bartends. He is constantly dropping hints and winking at me from behind the bar. I know that bartenders are known to be very flirty so am unsure if I should make a move. I also don't want to get into an affair at work and then regret it in case it gets awkward later. I have a friend who works in an office and began a work affair with one of her co-workers and later regretted it once people began to find out. Should I go for it, ignore it, or let him make the first move?
