Long before you even adopt a child, you should have completed counseling courses in the region where you live. If you haven't, or still need assistance, there are many non-profit agencies that will be more than happy to assist you. Check you directory assistance under "child welfare" or "social services". Meanwhile, just treat that child like a natural born child of your own. Do what comes naturally as long as it does not harm the child and is for the betterment of the childs welfare. At any time that you are unsure of what to do, check with a nurse or a family friend that has children or any parent, for that matter. I'm sure many people would be more than happy to help, given your position. Good luck and thanks for doing a wonderful thing!