I work for a place that a man I just recently ended things with is a customer at. Where he is a customer, he calls and comes in to my workplace on a pretty much daily basis. I dont always see him when hes here but when he calls I answer the phones here. So, I pretty much cant get away from him or get him off my mind and vice versa. I keep it professional and answer the phones as if he is any regular customer that we serve and when I see him I will say hello. But how do I play it cool? I still really like him alot and I dont want him to think that I am pining over him and that I cant live without him and that Im desperate. I want him to see that I am moving on and forward, and Im not all wrapped up in him but yet I still would be with him in a heartbeat if things could work out for us.
How do I convey that, what are some tips/advice on what to say and how to act when I see/talk to him at work? To show him that I am moving on and not thinking about him but yet hoping that he will change his mind and give us another try? How do I best exude that strong confidence to show him that Im not missing him but he could still have me if he makes a move?
