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How to act when approaching a woman?

Should a guy try to act “smooth” when he approaches a woman for the first time?


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Any men will put on “act” when they approach a woman as an EGO-DEFENSE mechanism.

That way if the woman happens to reject them, they can blame their rejection on the “act” or the “line”… instead of placing the blame where it should be… on themselves.

Now, what these guys FAIL to realize is that the very act of “putting on an act” is often the CAUSE of their rejection in the first place.

It’s no secret that women are very perceptive… especially attractive women who get hit on DOZENS of times each day.

They can smell a fraud from a mile away… and if that fraud is YOU… you’re going down.

Now, here’s a secret that woman know but men don’t:

It takes A LOT more courage to be YOURSELF than it does to approach a woman with an “act” or a “line” that ISN’T you.

And if you do approach a woman as YOURSELF and in a genuine and confident way, you will almost NEVER get rejected, because she will see the courage and confidence behind it.

Now… this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use a great line that you learned somewhere else.

As a matter of fact… you should… especially when you’re first getting started.

But think of the lines and techniques you learn as “training wheels”… and make it your goal to come up with some of your very own techniques that work for YOU and fit your personality to a “t”.


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