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i wrecked his truck and he tells me not worry about it but he won't really talk to me since it happend/ how do i handle this situation i am really stressin about it?


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Hi Bella,

     My question is, Did you offer money for the repair of his truck?  It is just fair for you to do that.  At least he will know that you a responsible person.  If he wrecked your car, probably you will expect for him to pay for the repair of your car.  Being boyfriend and girlfriend here does not preclude being responsible for ones actions.

    Ones car is an extension of oneself, at least that is how I look at it.

If you pay him for its repair, then probably he will feel better about you.


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Assuming it was really an accident, there is nothing you can do about it at this point. When you say he's not talking to you, are you implying you think he's angry or bitter because of the accident? If so, you need to sit him down and talk to him. You need to let him know exactly what happened and find a way to save enough money to pay for the damages. I hope this helps.


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Again , men and women language is different. No need to stress about it belia . He is probably hurt and a bit angry. Let him be .. He needs to break a few bottles and punch a few bags. Better than take it out on you. He still cares for you from what i see. He would have told you to get lost in the beginning. Do not mention this incident again to him, he knows your sorry and believes you. Best wishes


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If you seriously care about this person and how he feels about you, then right your wrong and pay for the damage to his truck.  He will see that you value his friendship.  You need to accept the responsibility of your actions whether intentional or not.  One just can't go around making mistakes and not acknowledging and rectifying them.  You are the only one who can fix this by doing what's right.


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Woops!  Can you buy him another one?   I'm just kidding.  Somthing similure happend between my Sisters.  And I realized that the Sister who's car got wrecked seemed really cold and quiet because she was worried about the cost of the repairs, and stuggled with the trust she had placed in our little Sister to take care of her car.  I know that in a relationship with a boyfriend, you always want him to approve of you, and he probably does if he hasn't split over this,  yet you may have shaken his trust, even though it was an accedent.   He just needs some time to work this out in his head,  and with his Insurance company!   And I agree with the the other answers...  you need to atleast offer to pay his Deductable,  and in that, you will also gain some of his trust back.


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