Worse sex life!!!!!!

Hi,

It not healthy for you to argue all the time as it obviously is damaging your relationship as well as your sex life, you want to talk to him calmly… we all want our men to be mind readers but unfortunately life isn’t that easy. You want to find what makes him click, what his fantasies are and fulfil them!! And you probably up having more fun than he is!! I know its hard talking to him about this because you don’t want to accidentally hurt is pride and fillings BUT I assure you if you don’t it will cause more problems further down road and I believe he’s feeling exactly the same as you are but both of you are to obviously scared to talk to each other cause your probably worried what you both mite come out with. The Get him to tell how he feeling

5 years is a long time so you got to fight for IT!! When to people are in a relationship for a long period of time sex starts to become routine instead fill with passion!! , have you very considered games?? To add more excitement and thrill in the relationship. Or if that doesn’t work have both of you ever considered seeing a counsellor or sex therapist? I hope any of this helps good luck! ;) x

No wonder you feel depressed: married for only 5 years, with a substantial sexual activity problem for the past 3. When a "high sex drive" partner (you) is married to one with a "lower sex drive" then real matrimonial problems can occur and fester. When women are deprived of enough sex they often suffer from resentment, frustration, anger, and low self-esteem. The big problem is that the "low sex drive" partner is unlikely to alter his frequency and desire for intercourse with you over time, unless there is a treatable underlying medical problem (eg depression), a psychological issue (eg erectile dysfunction), or if he takes medications (such as for high blood pressure or depression).

Sexual issues are a major factor in eventual major matrimonial dissatisfaction. The fact that you are fighting over sex, and such arguements can become quite bitter and personal, suggests that you could well benefit from marriage guidance counseling, to clarify the long-term outlook for sexual gratification in you marriage. Afterall, you love each other dearly, so it's worth the effort!

Seriously, try watching some good quality porn together, this can spice up some ideas and make things much more exiting. Also suprise him with kinky ideas. He may think that your tamer than you are. Also try the herbal remedy maca, great for energy exercise and sex life (both male and female) seriously maca is amazing I love love it, and not just for sex. good luck

Spice it up with some sex toys there is such a wide variety of them you can surprise him with one every month.