Worried about relationship

A couple of nights ago me and two of my buddies and one of their girlfriends went to canada clubbing and to a stripclub, I didnt know before hand that we'd be going to a stripclub but either way it was just to have a fun night b4 my buddy leaves for college, my girlfriend said that it wouldnt bother here if i ever went to one and i didnt go to see the women, i love her so much and i could tell it hurt her and that really bothered me to the point where i started crying in public when we talked about it, my question is if there are any women reading, if she'll forgive me for it?


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
I am a male if you still wish to read my answer:  You have very good chances that sje'll forgive you.  Tell her that you love her, that you didn't plan it and you would never choose to go there by your own (somehow it happened that finally you were there against your will).  Promise that it will never happen again and ask her to forgive you.  Emphasize that you love her and don't want to loose her. 
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2 Thumbs up for my friend OronD ,  I am a woman , and yes I think she can forgive you , as long as she knows that you truly understand how she feels about this and what I mean by that is that you truly understand her feelings and her pain .   Tell her you love her and you are sorry and would never do anything to hurt her and truly mean it .   


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Well, in general I'd say she certainly MAY forgive you. It worries me, though, that she said it would be fine if you did visit such a place, then got upset when you did it. That indicates that she may not be entirely in touch with her feelings. Then again, sometimes we think we'd be fine with something, but the reality is not what we expected.

Do let her know that you would not have gone if you knew that it would upset her, and (if you're sincere) let her know that you don't ever plan to go again.


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Its never too late to ask.

Cheer up its not as bad as you or your girl friend make it out to be. She must be very young or immature to make such a big deal out of harmless looking at a Strip Club.

That's all it was its done, its over now move on. Allright already!


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If you give your heart and soul completely you can't have any regrets!!!

I am a woman she will eventually forgive you.  You need to tell her how stupid it was for you to do that.  Tell her you have more respect for her, yourself and woman.  And that you have more respect for your relationship which I hope you do.  Guys don't understand how bad that makes women feel when you do stupid thoughtless things like that.  Next time I hope you think before you act if you care about your relationship and don't fall into the trap of having to do something because your boys are be a leader not a follower.


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