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Wondering...

I have been dating this girl for a while. She is the first serious girlfriend I have had. I could probably marry her and go on wondering. But if i only date her, how will i know shes the one, if i dont see other people and see the bad qualities  in in them and realize that she really is the one for me?

 

Is it possible to only date one girl your whole life, and then just marry her?

 

I dont really think age makes a difference but im 15.

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Ask her point of view on this subject. Also, I would just concentrate on us, overlook the same stuff and honestly ask myself if you are truly happy in the relationship.


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Its never too late to ask.

You are right, you are very young, yes its possible to go your whole life and marry her. But, first just think you have your whole life ahead of you, just as she does, and  as each of you move out of puberty your thoughts about girls, guys, will change, she may decide she wants to see the world, without you, and vice versa. If she is the one for you and vice versa you'll know in good time, but for sure that time is not now. There's more schooling also on the horizon too. Wouldn't you hate to grow up and look back and ask yourself woulda, coulda, shoulda?? I think so..the very reason you feel like you do is ALL of us at one time or another has felt that very same way. Immaturity has a way of doing that to us. Live your life you only go this way once. 


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Your question holds the answer.  You aren't sure it is right.   Run with that!


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My question holds the answer?


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I know age doesn't matter to a lot of people but with age comes experience and wisdom, not to mention hard learned lessons. I was sooo in love at 14, 15, 16 and married at 18. The only thing is...the guy I loved at 14 wasn't the guy I loved at 15 neither was the guy at 15 the guy I loved at 16 nor the one I married at 18. Love is a feeling we feel and there are so many different loves that we feel and sometimes it's hard to discern which one we may be feeling for someone. My advice take it or leave it is to take it day by day and the future will come soon enough. Enjoy today and the feelings your having and worry about tomorrow tomorrow. Hope this helps some.


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Hi there,

     I think 15 years old is too young to date seriously.  There are more things to pay attention to like going to school, trying to learn more about life and starting to prepare for the future by going to college and finishing a profession.

    When you are more mature, you will make better decisions.  So many  young people have regretted being too serious about dating and sex, had babies at a very young age and now looking back and wishing that they should not have involved in sex at a very young age.  Regrets always come at the end.

    Enjoy your teenage years with a group of friends, get involved in sports that you like.  This is a motherly advice.  I would tell my child the same thing.

    Take care.


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