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Wife refuses to have sex for two years now.

My wife stopped having sex with me and we been married 30 years.. we are 60.. now what? She refuses and keeps her cold sholder to me.  No one is fooling around.. She claims its because I rejected her a few years ago and doesnt forget it.. She is very attractive and Im pretty cool and good shape too.


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DB Lady
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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

   My friend OronD gave you an excellent suggestion, I gave him 2 thumbs up.  Yes, you both need to see a marriage counselor.  In addition, I recommend for her to see her Gynecologist to check her blood hormonal levels.  With these, hopefully you both will resolve your misunderstanding.

    Take care and  please continue being patient with your wife.  You don't  want to throw a 30 year marriage so easily. 
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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
You have a problem that might "kill" your marriage.  You have to attend to it B4 it happens.  I don't believe that you'll be able to solve it by yourselves so the only way is to get a proffesional counseling.  Tell your wife that it won't be smart to "kill" a 30 years of marriage for a problem like that and with mutual effords you'll overcome it easily. 
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WOW I  can't believe an adult would behave like this!!! Have you considered counseling, either with a priest/minister or regular marriage counselor?? She sounds SOOO immature!!....if she can't let go of the past, she has REAL problems!!....I hate to say it, but maybe you should start looking elsewhere..... I know that's not the best answer, but if I were you, I'd have put up with that for about 10 minutes!!! either get her butt into counseling, or ELSE........There's plenty of other fish in the sea.....men have strayed for less! !!!
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THE ANSWER is  apparently.. either she shapes up, or iIshould start looking to find a nice woman that can be less selfish.  Or  not have a woman at all...

I can cook, fix cars, wash clothes and dishes, fix plumbing, landscaping, write books, creating a movie, buy flowers for her all the time, buy her nice clothes and gifts as a surprise, go to church(without her), remember every special date with gifts and dinners, nice to her family.............Likes sports, traveling etc.

Im 6 ft, 178, fit, MBA, makes good money. etc. and have all my hair.

Surely there is a woman out there that would be happy to put her arms around me once in awhile. 

 
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For every winner, there are dozens of losers, odds are we are one of them.

Hey there, think about her for a sec its not about sex man, but if you maybe if you took her somewhere nice maybe somewhere were you two could have some fun or a place you had good memories.dont lose the edge man 60 goin on strong. past good memories bring smiles on faces remember that fella, hope things work out. ;)
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