He is almost 30 years old and behaving like that????  A 30 year old man with 2 chidren and has had no job for 2 whole years???  Run, Darlin'!!!  Find yourself a good, responsible, intelligent man.  Nice personality only goes so far!!  What if you became pregnant??  You would be a single mother.  He would contribute as little or less to your child as he does to the 2 he already has!!!  Please, Anigina, get out now!!!  People rarely change, and he doesn't have to!  He is being taken care of, like a stray dog, by every pushover on the block!!